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Pandora

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Post by Pandora on Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:12 pm

Yeah, I saw what you all said about me, and I have this to say.

1) Tease, I did NOT personally attack you and you know it. You said that had I lost someone to cancer, I wouldn't find South Park funny because it's a serious disease and it's painful. I responded by telling you that, yes, I HAVE lost someone to cancer, my grandmother, and that she had so many tumors that a biopsy would have made her bleed to death. She died exactly three weeks after her diagnosis. Now, I haven't let that taint my ability to enjoy something like South Park's satire on things. I said that you shouldn't have made that assumption about me. That is not a personal attack. You assumed I didn't know something about cancer that I, in fact, do know. It was a simple mistake and shouldn't be taken so personally.

2) If you took it that personally, then you should have discussed it with me via pm's instead of deleting a post that pointed out that you had made an incorrect assumption. That's not objective moderator behavior. It makes you look good and me look like I'm a horrible person. I don't appreciate that considering, you were actually wrong. If you don't like South Park and don't like the jokes they make on it, that's fine, don't watch it, but don't paint me to me some kind of snob because I do watch it, and admit when you've made a mistake. You could have just said "Oh, I didn't know that about your grandma" and dropped it and I wouldn't be sitting here typing this right now.

3) When I say I'm bored in the chatbox, I come here to chat so I won't be bored. Do you all come here when you are actively involved in doing something? Of course not. When people are busy and they log into the chat box, it's usually quiet because of them being busy. It's active when we are not busy. So don't try to make me look stupid for doing what every one else does.

4) I also saw what was said about myself and Dante. Sorry for loving him and being happy about it. I talk about things that make me happy. It's not like you don't talk about Mike, Tease.

5) I'm not just tired of the internet, I'm tired of the people ON IT. I've noticed this place quickly becoming a clique of sorts, where it didn't used to be. I'm not dropping names, but I see people sending each other pm's in front of others in the chat box, talking about each other behind each other's backs, and treating some people with favoritism. We didn't used to do that when this forum started. I don't think there's a reason for anyone to be doing it now.

6) I'm guessing this is going to be deleted. But that's just going to prove my point further. I have a right to say what I feel just as much as anyone else on this forum. Yes, including TA. Deleting my post because I'm voicing my feelings and then telling others that I did things which I have not done isn't fair. It presents a bias angle to the issue. Deleting my post does not allow me to have my side of the issue, and only presents the other side. That would go with any issue involving anyone, not just me. If I had said something really nasty, cussed everyone out, and started flaming people, then it would be worthy of a delete. But I haven't done that. This was an issue that could have been easily solved. I believe that deleting my posts because someone took them personally, and then talking about me behind my back wasn't fair to either myself, or to Tease herself. For one, it makes me look like a worse person than I actually am, and puts words in my mouth, and it makes Tease look biased.


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SD

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Re: For everyone's information

Post by SD on Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:39 pm

[Mod-edited for later review]


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TeenageAngst

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Location: Virginia

Re: For everyone's information

Post by TeenageAngst on Sat Oct 17, 2009 11:22 pm

She's right, this place is kinda cliquish, though I could just be from my point of view.


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Lord Grey II

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Re: For everyone's information

Post by Lord Grey II on Sat Oct 17, 2009 11:29 pm

*Being A Mod*

That's a bit over the line SD.

This thread is heated, and will probably continue that way. Everyone chill out. iLock.


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